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"Have you never wondered why it is we are not just in armed combat against you? It is not because there is a shortage of kitchen knives in this country. It is because we believe in your humanity, against all the evidence." - Andrea Dworkin, 1980, I Want A 24 Hour Truce (In Which There Is No Rape)

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Yay for this, Ally! I’m with you 100% and I thank you for putting into words what I also feel all of this every day of my life. Your writing is gorgeous, eloquent, and fiery. I love it. I have my own collection of unwanted dick sightings over the course of many years on the planet. I can’t stand the idea of saying “I hate men,” but there are times when that’s the only feeling I can muster as a response to their sense of privilege, the arrogance, their inherent violence, the self-assigned superiority. Of course there are men that I love, but they are a small group that has been carefully vetted. As a group, though, they are always suspect. That’s not on me. They earned it by their repellent behaviors and attitudes. It’s a terrible thing to have to say, much less feel. I could go on, but it’s late. Thank you my dear for your honesty and bravery. You keep showing up in your truth. I respect that so much. xoxo

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