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Retired Midwesterner's avatar

What a beautiful, disturbing, and accurate description of navigating our society as a woman.

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Nan Tepper's avatar

I couldn't even finish reading this post I got so mad for you. 21 months? And your friend is no friend at all if HE's MANBLAMING you for their unprofessionalism. JFC. “It’s not a gender thing,” he assured me, “it’s a person thing. Obviously what you’re doing isn’t working.” YOU??? YOU??? Sorry, not sorry, this shit makes me crazy. But how do you really feel about it, Nan? Gah, poor man baby web developer. Why is it so hard for people to own their stuff? To say, I'm sorry, you're right Ally, we screwed up. Now I'm going to go back and read the rest of your post. Sorry this is happening. I'd sue the fucker and I'm the least litigious person I know. Double GAH! xo

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