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EFS's avatar

Reading this, I finally realized why "not all men" infuriates me. It's because that common male response to a story like Rebecca Cheptegei's turns the topic away from women, and male beastliness, to another opportunity to bray about themselves.

For women, these stories split the world open a little more each time we hear them. But men erase women completely in their pat response.

I'm sure that not all men will vote for Kamala Harris. But all women must, for ourselves, and for our daughters.

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Rob Tourtelot's avatar

I wish I had better words to say other than, I'm sorry all of this happened to you, and I'm so glad you're wise and brave enough to write all of this. It's crucial.

I worry for my teen daughter, my nieces, younger sisters, and all the women in my life. I want so much better for them, for you, for everyone. I don't know how we get there, but I do know that being brave enough to stand up and tell stories and bring attention to them... that's how we start.

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