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Dina Honour's avatar

Yesterday my 17 y/o came home from school and told me about a debate they'd had in his Global politics course about taxing the rich. And we talked and I passionately spoke--or as my kids say, yelled--and he did and we nodded and fist pumped, metaphorically, and I smiled to know that I'd helped to raise a fundamentally sound person. Earlier that day my older son called me--for advice!!!--and I smiled to know that I helped to raise another fundamentally sound person. That's what I sort of hang onto these days, especially on days where the crazies are crawling out from under the rocks with the speed of Clickers in The Last of Us and endangering us all.

There seem to be a lot of those days lately.

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Cody N.'s avatar

Ally, every time I read your writing I find myself thinking "I wish some MAGA person would engage with this." And I'm sorry for thinking that, because I know that would actually be horrible in practice, but I just feel like if people could see things the way you lay them out, how could they possibly argue? It's wishful thinking but there's also a rage behind it, like people who shove their dogs face into their poop when they go in the house (that metaphor is not a commentary on your writing hahaha). I want to be like "Look at this!!! Look at it!! Now explain yourself!!!" Anyway, that same rage place had me almost get into a fight with another grown man at a social adult soccer game and then crying about it this morning because I am so frustrated by entitled men who are bad sports who never seem to give any passing thought to the feelings or the humanity of the people around them. And I'm tired of being treated badly (in the world, as a trans person - this wasn't so much about the soccer, you see) and expected to still play fair and be positive and have a good attitude. Anyway, it wasn't my proudest moment because I definitely had an "if you can't beat em, join em" mentality but you have written your rage so beautifully that I thought I could probably share this story with you.

Thanks for writing it down and sharing it with us. It makes me feel seen. I hope your son has a great return to college in the coolest, safest car of all time. (As someone who inherited my great-grandmother's Honda Civic at 16 for a few hundred dollars and the promise to drive her around, I highly endorse that model. 😁)

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