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Eileen Dougharty's avatar

I know I can have 27 supportive & lovely bits of encouragement and I will full on obsess about the one that tells me I suck. It does hit that spot from childhood, the fear of fucking up. Thank you for the reminder that eating your hurt feelings makes it harder for others to know and treat you well. ❤️

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Wendy Varley's avatar

I love that analogy with adjusting the rear view mirror, Ally. I’m on a trip with the wonderful community choir I sing with at the moment and every conversation is reminding me of this. So many different experiences and perspectives.

My mum died three years ago, too. ´I miss her in the way you’d miss air if it was suddenly gone.´ Yes! You’ve put it perfectly.

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