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Beautiful, Ally. Those 3rd act questions have been looming around my brain lately too. I think it was Pema Chödrön who said uncertainty is our fundamental state. Whew. Yeah.

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It's a huge thing to ponder, swimming in the waters of uncertainty, but also knowing that somehow you won't sink. Even though life is hard and weird sometimes, it's reassuring to see that you've made it this far, and even though it hasn't been easy, things have turned out mostly OK. I think that's what keeps us going—knowing that we've done a good job of keeping everyone afloat. And maybe the shift of contents in that running tape allows everyone to put their dreams and goals in focus, which could be a great thing all around. You've done so much to help your family succeed, and now they can grow a little more, and you can, too. No matter what, that growth will always be something you've all helped each other achieve.

Congrats to your son on his graduation!

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